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This article deals with general attitudes of the peoples of Hökaland. | This article deals with general '''attitudes''' of the peoples of Hökaland. | ||
Se separate article for more specified [[tradition]]s. | |||
== | == Might, power and ownership == | ||
Laws and traditions for ownership varies across the realms. The most common way is that only regents actually own anything in our modern sense. Everyone else have some sort of lease (time-limited or in perpetuitum) adhering to fudalism or similar methods of power distribution. | |||
=== Ascendancy === | === Ascendancy === | ||
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A family or force can claim sovreignity at any time, despite not being a noble family. They can claim it over a small piece of land, a city or a larger area and become King (or Queen). If this claim is made, it needs to keep power over the main part of their claim (a city or fort) for 1001 days before the [[Register]] considers it a legitimate claim, and at which point it starts keeping track of its family and heraldry. | A family or force can claim sovreignity at any time, despite not being a noble family. They can claim it over a small piece of land, a city or a larger area and become King (or Queen). If this claim is made, it needs to keep power over the main part of their claim (a city or fort) for 1001 days before the [[Register]] considers it a legitimate claim, and at which point it starts keeping track of its family and heraldry. | ||
== Gay rights == | == Gay rights == | ||
Humane tolerance and acceptance varies across the Realms. | |||
In the [[Midrealms]] the attitude is similar to that of Western Medieval times as the very concept is alien and society look at the individual acts as odd or the like rather than a person genuinely falls in love with someone in any way different than the norm. This is broadly not part of public discourse and many non-hetero people find both love and a happy life through being "that aunt who lives with her friend", or the like, but sadly not societal acceptance of themselves, fully. Being accused of "lewd acts" can cause real suffering to those exposed to such accusations. | |||
A couple hundred years ago the situation was more dire, but especially influx of trade from [[Southrealms]] over time has diminished some of the social intolerance to a point where, really, only outright accusations and evidence brought to court (or the [[Church of Rahn]]) has practical consequences. | |||
Tolerance is greater in the [[ | Tolerance is greater in the Southrealms, and there are openly same-sex lovers but in many aspects of everyday life, it's akin to the U.S. Army obsolete "Don't ask don't tell" policy. Accepting any love has been a thousand year social norm in the south but, sadly, diminishing with adherence to the [[Orthodox Church]] and social influence from the north has diluted this somewhat. If a person is accused with the weight of the book there can still be practical consequences but doing so would also low-key create local social outrage against the accuser. | ||
In the [[Northrealm]]s tolerance is more complex. People don't care so much who you lay with, but gender roles are of slightly greater importance and a "man that lies like a woman" can not be considered for any important tasks like leadership. To be called "ergi" is also a mortal insult. | In the [[Northrealm]]s tolerance is more complex. People really don't care so much who you lay with, but gender roles are of slightly greater importance and a "man that lies like a woman" can not be considered for any important tasks like leadership. To be called "ergi" is also a mortal insult, similar to Norse culture of the 900s in our world. | ||
[[Rahn]], the god of men, doesn't | [[Rahn]], the god of men, doesn't actually have an opinion on the matter. Though he doesn't actually condemn it in any of his quotes or holy texts, it is interpreted by all the [[Religion]]s that he does. | ||
== Gender equality == | == Gender equality == | ||
Gender equality amongst the general populace is actually not that bad. The short term is "it sucks for everyobody, roughly equal". Women work fields or craft items, own pubs and boss people around almost as much as men. There are some stereotypes assumign women, together with a lower physical strength, also lacks mental prowess, despite this fact being disproven every day in every village. | |||
Generally, men and women have an easy time divorcing one another as well, though the Churches are trying to curb some of this as they see it as immoral. | |||
=== Gentry gender equality === | |||
The [[Realm]]s employ a fairly flexible succession system which is monitored and organised by the [[Family Register]] wherein it isn't uncommon for female regents. This is a symptom to show that the world is slightly more gender equal than medieval Europe, but not by a large margin. The primary reason for this flexibility has been to ensure the noble lineages despite a system where new families can create themselves and rise to power. | The [[Realm]]s employ a fairly flexible succession system which is monitored and organised by the [[Family Register]] wherein it isn't uncommon for female regents. This is a symptom to show that the world is slightly more gender equal than medieval Europe, but not by a large margin. The primary reason for this flexibility has been to ensure the noble lineages despite a system where new families can create themselves and rise to power. | ||
Female regents are dealt with in official channels with respect, but a level of disrespect exists and has to be accepted by the female regent in order to keep to power. She has to accept the general notion that she is inferior in physical and mental attributes to | Female regents are dealt with in official channels with respect, but a level of disrespect exists and has to be accepted by the female regent in order to keep to power. She has to accept the general notion that "she is inferior in physical and mental attributes to men" - at least officially. Behind the scenes a female regent needs to be more apt at politics to remain in power than a male counterpart simply because more competitors will (most likely in error) believe she's an easy target. A general rule is that if a woman has sat on the throne for longer than the time to takes to gain a male heir (even an infant), she is probably better at staying in power than she lets on. | ||
The quality of regents among males vary widely, but female regents are either very good, managing to stay in control, or they are thrown aside before they have a chance to blink. It can be said that long reigning female regents are often more skilled at navigating the treacherous waters of politics than their male counterparts. At the same time, most female regents choose to portray a slightly less powerful front to avoid intimidating male lords and as part of the game to keep in control. | The quality of regents among males vary widely, but female regents are either very good, managing to stay in control, or they are thrown aside before they have a chance to blink. It can be said that long reigning female regents are often more skilled at navigating the treacherous waters of politics than their male counterparts. At the same time, most female regents choose to portray a slightly less powerful front to avoid intimidating male lords and as part of the game to keep in control. | ||
== Ginger complexion == | |||
Unlike the newer notions in our modern world of "gingers have no soul" etc, for gingers in Hökaland there are many strong views on them. Red hair and marble skin and/or freckles is a general sign of strength or wit and possible lines of dragon blood in a child. Depending on how the family or society views dragon/hawk lines, the child will be treated very differently. Some beliefs are that the red hair comes from something deeper than dragons and hawks and it's part of a deep natural force. Regardless, ginger children do tend to be treated a bit differently and turn out a bit different as well. Common stereotypes include bookworms that hide away in the [[Family Register]] or university or become charmers and leaders of people. | |||
== Lefthandedness == | == Lefthandedness == | ||
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== Magic == | == Magic == | ||
People are generally wary of | People are generally wary of anything supernatural and disikes magic and its users, but at the same time can be seen to buy good luck charms and love potions. | ||
* See [[Magic user]] | * See [[Magic user]] | ||
== Marriage == | |||
Marriage is for most commoners not a big affair. They have a party like any holy day (often during a holy day) and no contracts are generally written but based off of teh witnesses attending. The same goes for divorce as all one needs to do is inform a good number of witnesses and it's done. Only when dividing marital assets it usually becomes a more major issue that a local official has to deal with. | |||
It isn't unheard of for one or more people to be married to one or more others, though it's not really a socially acceptable practice. | |||
Latest revision as of 15:50, 6 January 2023
This article deals with general attitudes of the peoples of Hökaland.
Se separate article for more specified traditions.
Might, power and ownership
Laws and traditions for ownership varies across the realms. The most common way is that only regents actually own anything in our modern sense. Everyone else have some sort of lease (time-limited or in perpetuitum) adhering to fudalism or similar methods of power distribution.
Ascendancy
- Main article: Ascendancy
Not unlike the American Dream, the dream of Ascendancy is the general idea that anyone can become anything they want and is held by many in the Realms. Much like in our world, this is an empty dream powered by those in charge to enthrall the masses to instill a sense of meaning in fairly meaningless lives. Like gambling or drinking, it is a carrot for people to hang on to a dream in a depressing, short, life while doing their best - which mainly helps others than themselves.
This myth lives on through many knightings ("for life") to Tyrospurs as well as the odd mythical attemt to create a Kingdom by Might.
Kingdom by Might
- Main article: Gentry#Kingdom_by_Might
A family or force can claim sovreignity at any time, despite not being a noble family. They can claim it over a small piece of land, a city or a larger area and become King (or Queen). If this claim is made, it needs to keep power over the main part of their claim (a city or fort) for 1001 days before the Register considers it a legitimate claim, and at which point it starts keeping track of its family and heraldry.
Gay rights
Humane tolerance and acceptance varies across the Realms.
In the Midrealms the attitude is similar to that of Western Medieval times as the very concept is alien and society look at the individual acts as odd or the like rather than a person genuinely falls in love with someone in any way different than the norm. This is broadly not part of public discourse and many non-hetero people find both love and a happy life through being "that aunt who lives with her friend", or the like, but sadly not societal acceptance of themselves, fully. Being accused of "lewd acts" can cause real suffering to those exposed to such accusations.
A couple hundred years ago the situation was more dire, but especially influx of trade from Southrealms over time has diminished some of the social intolerance to a point where, really, only outright accusations and evidence brought to court (or the Church of Rahn) has practical consequences.
Tolerance is greater in the Southrealms, and there are openly same-sex lovers but in many aspects of everyday life, it's akin to the U.S. Army obsolete "Don't ask don't tell" policy. Accepting any love has been a thousand year social norm in the south but, sadly, diminishing with adherence to the Orthodox Church and social influence from the north has diluted this somewhat. If a person is accused with the weight of the book there can still be practical consequences but doing so would also low-key create local social outrage against the accuser.
In the Northrealms tolerance is more complex. People really don't care so much who you lay with, but gender roles are of slightly greater importance and a "man that lies like a woman" can not be considered for any important tasks like leadership. To be called "ergi" is also a mortal insult, similar to Norse culture of the 900s in our world.
Rahn, the god of men, doesn't actually have an opinion on the matter. Though he doesn't actually condemn it in any of his quotes or holy texts, it is interpreted by all the Religions that he does.
Gender equality
Gender equality amongst the general populace is actually not that bad. The short term is "it sucks for everyobody, roughly equal". Women work fields or craft items, own pubs and boss people around almost as much as men. There are some stereotypes assumign women, together with a lower physical strength, also lacks mental prowess, despite this fact being disproven every day in every village.
Generally, men and women have an easy time divorcing one another as well, though the Churches are trying to curb some of this as they see it as immoral.
Gentry gender equality
The Realms employ a fairly flexible succession system which is monitored and organised by the Family Register wherein it isn't uncommon for female regents. This is a symptom to show that the world is slightly more gender equal than medieval Europe, but not by a large margin. The primary reason for this flexibility has been to ensure the noble lineages despite a system where new families can create themselves and rise to power.
Female regents are dealt with in official channels with respect, but a level of disrespect exists and has to be accepted by the female regent in order to keep to power. She has to accept the general notion that "she is inferior in physical and mental attributes to men" - at least officially. Behind the scenes a female regent needs to be more apt at politics to remain in power than a male counterpart simply because more competitors will (most likely in error) believe she's an easy target. A general rule is that if a woman has sat on the throne for longer than the time to takes to gain a male heir (even an infant), she is probably better at staying in power than she lets on.
The quality of regents among males vary widely, but female regents are either very good, managing to stay in control, or they are thrown aside before they have a chance to blink. It can be said that long reigning female regents are often more skilled at navigating the treacherous waters of politics than their male counterparts. At the same time, most female regents choose to portray a slightly less powerful front to avoid intimidating male lords and as part of the game to keep in control.
Ginger complexion
Unlike the newer notions in our modern world of "gingers have no soul" etc, for gingers in Hökaland there are many strong views on them. Red hair and marble skin and/or freckles is a general sign of strength or wit and possible lines of dragon blood in a child. Depending on how the family or society views dragon/hawk lines, the child will be treated very differently. Some beliefs are that the red hair comes from something deeper than dragons and hawks and it's part of a deep natural force. Regardless, ginger children do tend to be treated a bit differently and turn out a bit different as well. Common stereotypes include bookworms that hide away in the Family Register or university or become charmers and leaders of people.
Lefthandedness
People who are left handed are said to be lying and backstabbing and cannot be trusted. Most parents try to train their young to be right handed at least so they seem "normal" for everyday life. There exists some famous exceptions of fighters who are left handed, but generally people believe them to be cursed for whatever reason.
Magic
People are generally wary of anything supernatural and disikes magic and its users, but at the same time can be seen to buy good luck charms and love potions.
- See Magic user
Marriage
Marriage is for most commoners not a big affair. They have a party like any holy day (often during a holy day) and no contracts are generally written but based off of teh witnesses attending. The same goes for divorce as all one needs to do is inform a good number of witnesses and it's done. Only when dividing marital assets it usually becomes a more major issue that a local official has to deal with.
It isn't unheard of for one or more people to be married to one or more others, though it's not really a socially acceptable practice.
Nationalism
Nationalism like it exists in our world does not exist in Hökaland, but xenophobia always exist aplenty. A "version" of nationalism is that people are protective of their homes and their find "thier current kingdom" safer than the prospect of "changing kingdoms" (by war, usually). People are proud, in a sense, of their Kingdom and often feel something positive for their protector (Regent), but people are members of their local communities first, their province second, their county third and their Kingdom fourth.
Slavery
Every gentleman and decent freeman in the Realms will always condemn slavery, if asked. At the same time they often do not mind the near-slavery system of indebted farmers that make up the vast majority (more than 90%) of the population and the use of forced labour camps as punishment for many minor crimes.
In other parts of the world, slavery exists and is a large part of the economy.